The Empath Connection Newsletter
 Information for Empaths and Highly Sensitive People. 
 
 SEPTEMBER 2008

 
     It's your friend Michael Smith, and welcome to the September 2008 issue - which is packed with information and ideas to make your life easier as an energetically and spiritually sensitive individual. 
 








LIVING IN TWO WORLDS: 
Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies.
 
 
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Ying and yang.   Left and right.   Negative polarity and positive polarity.   Sky and Earth.  What do these terms all have in common?   They all relate to various ways to describe the inherent masculine and feminine natures of individuals, animals, and objects. 

As an empath or highly sensitive person, you know what it's like to exist in two worlds.  You know the world of spirit like the back of your hand, and you also know (and sometimes are less comfortable with!) the world of Earth.  Two different frequences.  Two different energy polarities.  One of the most important aspects of being a conscious empath is to learn how to exist in a state of balance between worlds - the world of Spirit and the world of Earth.  And as strange as it may sound, this is entirely analagous to living in balance between masculine and feminine energy.
 
God, Great Spirit, or Creator - whatever term you use to call the Source energy - has blessed each of us with unique energetic signatures.  That's a fancy way of saying we each are different, especially when it comes to our inherent gender and sexual makeup.    Each of us have an inborn amount of both masculine and feminine energy.   For the majority of us, one end of the spectrum naturally comes much easier than the other.  One of the goals of emotional & spiritual maturity is to live in a state of balance between these two polarities.
 
But what about those of you who are gay or lesbian?   You exist in a state where you are constantly moving between two ADDITIONAL worlds - that of the feminine and masculine Earthly natures.  You are doubly gifted!  
 
Traditionally, in almost all of the First Nation or American Indian tribes, there have been the "two-spirits," those who are gay or lesbian.  It's actually considered by some to be a third gender.  Sometimes two-spirits are referred to as "berdache," which in actuality is a quite sexist term originally given by ignorant Europeans meaning "kept boy." 
 
Terminology aside, because of their unique gifts, it is much easier for gay or lesbian two-spirited individuals to tap into both the masculine and feminine energy polarities.   Therefore, it is also easier for them to bring the masculine energy of Father Sky (the heavens) down to Mother Earth.   Because of this, they have traditionally been the healers, shamans, and medicine men of the tribes.   A far cry from the historical banishment they have experienced from most institutional religions.
 
Early on in my training, one of the first things my medicine man teacher had me do was to wear a dress during spiritual ceremony.  He was one of the most masculine men I have ever met, and yet he was telling me to wear a dress?     When we were in ceremony, all the other men could wear their normal clothes.   I had to wear a dress, and I was not exactly thrilled about it.

Over the course of the last half-decade, I have come to embrace the feminine aspect of my nature.  In fact, without access to that Power, the profound work that I do in Inner Power Coaching would be almost entirely useless.   Before and after each session, I invoke and help you to call upon on the Divine Feminine energy that is the very basis of healing.    There was a very good reason why my teacher had me wear a dress!
 
In the new Empath Toolkit Seminar, I share an exercise that you can do to help become aware of how the gender & sexual energy polarities manifest physically in every person based on our appearances.
 
Eastern medicine has always appreciated that certain parts of the body are either masculine or feminine in nature.   The physical manifestation and shape of our faces actually tell a GREAT deal about how well we are using (or not using) our masculine or feminine powers.   That information is quite detailed and goes beyond this little article.    

And yet there is a profound amount of power and beauty contained in the energies of Father Sky and Mother Earth.    If you've never considered why we call our Earth a "mother," then now is your invitation to find out!  There is a good reason why she's called that.   

Once you learn why, then you will be more fully able to live in a state of balance and harmony!
 





 

 
HOW TO LIVE TO BE 100!
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Laugh Like This!

This is my 90-year old Grandma "Lil" (Pictured, right) and her 86-year old sister, having fun, & no doubt laughing at themselves!   This picture is now on greeting cards across the country!    Congratulations Grandma!


 
MOTHER MEERA
 
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Mother Meera
Last weekend I had the great fortune to receive darshan from Mother Meera. She is believed by many in India to be a divine incarnation of the Great Mother.

If you are able to receive darshan from Mother while she is in the United States or Canada, GO. She accepts no fees; charges nothing. Visit the schedule of her darshan at http://www.mothermeeradarshan.org/ . She next visits Toronto, Rochester, Boston, NYC, Ottowa, & Montreal.
 
When she took my head into her hands, Time and Space seemed to dissolve. It felt like FOREVER that she was holding my head in her hands, although in Earth time it was only a few seconds.

I then looked into her eyes. I saw the most steady love I have ever seen. It was neutral love. It wasn't false. It was being given freely, steadily.   I felt GIDDY.  She had amazing joy emanating from her eyes. Time shifted.  It felt like she was staring at me FOREVER. That's the only way my words can describe it.


 
 
THE EMPATH STORE SEPTEMBER SUPER CLEARANCE!
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A little treat this month to give thanks for EVERYTHING:  I've put everything on clearance.  
 
The new product I am most excited about sharing with you are the Lifewave Nanotechnology Anti-anxiety & sleeping patches.  They help calm your energy by interacting with your electromagnetic field.  Along with a select few other products (like the Biomat, which is much more expensive investment), they are one of the best products for empaths & highly sensitive people that I have experienced.  The moment I put the patches on, I felt the energy change instantly and I was hooked.  I am continually impressed by the high quality & scientific research that
The Lifewave Company undertakes to prove and improve the efficacy of their products.   They also make energy enhancing patches that increase your energy & raise your metabolism for endurance.


Lifewave Anti-Anxiety Patches -  $57.99

The Empath Power Kit -  SALE $16.99
 
Oversized Quartz Crystals - $3.99
 
White Sage Smudge Kits - $5.49 (30 day supply).
 
Large Crystal Zipper pouches - $3.59 SUPER CLEARANCE!
 
PowerLixir Gem Elixirs - $6.99 SUPER CLEARANCE!
 
Extra Large Black Tourmaline  - $3.79
 
Lithium Stones - $3.99
 
I am constantly adding innovative products to help regulate your energy & putting things on sale each week, so be sure to stop on by on a regular basis!       

 

And.......

ANNOUNCING THE BRAND NEW AUDIO SEMINAR IN
THE COMPLETE EMPATH TOOLKIT!     
 
 
"Full Sensory Intuition: Using your Body as an Oracle to Connect with Spirit and Answer Life's Questions." 
 
 
 
Available for a limited time.  
$14.99 /73 mins.
 

 
SOME OTHER SITES THAT YOU MAY ENJOY
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Santa Fe Metaphysical Film Festival - links to new spiritual films!

My friend & fellow empath Colleen Rae's "Joyflow" Site

Amaya's Channelings of Isaiah & Earth Changes.

LD Porter - Medical Intuitive & Remote Viewing





READER COMMENTS
 
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"I loved the steps in regard to dream recall and great idea on 12-step concept and link to empaths (or ESI's as you say ;).  Interesting to see how that may develop.  I've read many newsletters e-zines from a variety of sources and generally I kind of think to myself - hmmm - just not quite there or I'm frustrated with the content.  Not so at all in your case.  Very impressed."   - Gena S. MN

 
 
"I think the newsletter is great. I enjoy reading it.  I think a 12 step program for empath's is a great idea. Putting it together can be a challenge for you and if you would need help don't hesitate to ask. However, step 1 should be admitting that you have this gift and that you're powerless over it. Take it from there. One thing I'm learning is that you need to let go of a lot of religious and society things that we've been taught about right, wrong, what is, what is not, and learn to listen to your gut. It's very difficult and quite a challenge but it's well worth it. I still have a long way to go but these are a few of the things I'm learning on my journey."    - Tracey T.



"Michael, Thank you for the wonderful newsletter.  Just recently, I've just found out why I was so darn confused almost all of the time - there are individuals who have strong energy and just love to hang on to my soul's energy for dear life and forgetting that I have a life also.   How draining. The whole (hole) of humanity seems to hang on to whatever they can to survive and forget that we need to survive also. The stones/crystals do work, so does holy water and perfume!    As for meditation, it is another different habit we all need to incorporate as a habit in our empath lives too. There was this particular DVD on Meditation and how to do it. It was a form of yoga; Reiki, only in a standing position or you could do this laying down. It takes only 20 minutes. So I do this in the morning and evening. And in between my breaks at work I have a small ten minute session just to check in as you would put it.   It is checking the chakras inside your body.  Warm hugs and blessings."  Kathy R.





SHARE YOUR IDEAS!
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If you have something you'd like to submit to the newsletter, a great idea, an essay, an article, please let me know and I'll be happy to consider it for inclusion!

And remember, I offer INNER POWER COACHING for an introductory fee of just $35 for 50 minutes.  Learn more about INNER POWER coaching....

Until next time, keep smiling, keep moving, keep praying, and KEEP CREATING YOURSELF!


Onward!

Michael Smith, Ph.D., NCC, RPP.



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